Reinvigorating Social Skills in Children and Adolescents: Emphasis on Courtesy and Politeness
DOI:
https://doi.org/10.66545/f281st78Keywords:
courtesy, social skills, children, adolescents, politenessAbstract
Cultural Intelligence plays a vital role in shaping the social skills of children and adolescents, influencing their ability to interact effectively across diverse cultural settings. Social skills such as politeness, courtesy is essential for fostering positive relationships, self-esteem, and
teamwork. However, various societal changes, including increased reliance on technology and shifting social norms, have led to a decline in these critical interpersonal skills. This paper explores the role of parents, teachers, and therapists in reinforcing social skill development and highlights the impact of peer influence on shaping behaviors. Furthermore, it examines strategies for promoting politeness and courtesy, such as modeling respectful behavior, teaching social norms, and encouraging pro-social actions. By implementing structured interventions and reinforcing positive interactions, children and adolescents can develop stronger social skills that contribute to their overall well-being and societal harmony.
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